1% vs doing it yourself

1% vs doing it yourself.
Side by side.

We say when doing it yourself wins.

1% Concierge is for busy men who want dates with women they’re excited about. A dedicated team makes your photos and profile, then runs your dating apps for you. Doing it yourself can work too. Here’s where the two differ, so you can pick.

About 20 minutes · We learn who you’re looking for ·
By application only

Where we’re the same · Where we differ · When doing it yourself is the better pick

onepercent.dating/compare/doing-it-yourself · the verdict sheet
1% and doing it yourself, side by side
1%Doing it yourself
Where you meet her: the dating appsYesYes
New photos, no photoshootYesYou find a photographer
Profile written for youYesYou write it
We run your apps for youYesYou do all of it
Dates booked into your calendarYesNo

Every row is explained below, including the one where it’s a tie.

The first question

Where will you meet her?

Either way, it all happens on the same dating apps, and she’s on them right now.

1%: you meet her on the dating apps.

even

Doing it yourself: you’re on the same apps. Both start there.

So the difference is your photos, and who does the work.

Dead even on where you meet her.

Key difference 01 · Your photos

She sees your photos
before anything else.

Doing it yourself

A photographer, a friend with your phone, or an AI image app.

A good photographer can take good photos of you. A generic AI image app sees a couple of selfies, then guesses. Whichever you go with, you choose the photos and write the bio yourself.

Example of a photoshoot: a man in a suit stepping off a private jet
Example: a photoshoot.
Example of a photo a friend took: a man in a denim jacket on a street, holding a drink
Example: a friend with your phone.

1%

New photos, no photoshoot.

Start from 750+ proven templates. An AI learns your face from your own photos, then makes new photos of you. A real editor works on every photo, with unlimited revisions.

Then we write your profile, in your voice. Every photo is yours to download.

If a photo doesn’t look like you, it gets redone.

Todd V co-founded 1%.

His photo

What they made

Todd’s own photo: sitting at a café table in a grey henley
Todd lying in the snow beside a team of sled dogs
Todd in a white double-breasted suit, in warm evening light

He gave our image editors this photo. They made these. Todd never left his house.

He used photos his friends took. Barely any results. Then 6 dates in week two.

Joe1% member · on videoHear it, 4:16

Great in person, but no dates from the apps. Then about 3 dates a week, 2 to 3 months in.

Kabine1% member · on videoHear it, 4:44

“… thanks to Atlas and Kaity I […] went on 70+ dates in one year. They helped me create a stellar profile for online dating …”

Nicholas1% member

The verdict

Pick doing it yourself if

you have good photos from this year, and they’re already getting you dates.

Pick 1% if

your best photo is a few years old, or it isn’t getting you dates.

Key difference 02 · The apps

Then someone has to run the apps.

Doing it yourself

You write every message.

You swipe, and reply between meetings. Then you turn a good chat into a date. Advice helps, but you’re still the one typing.

“It’s just a grind and like a second job if you have high expectations.”

A man aged 30 to 34, on Reddit

1%

We run them for you.

We run your apps: we do the swiping and the messaging, and book each date from your brief. Dates go on your calendar, synced so nothing clashes.

Privacy mode lets you approve each match before anyone messages her.

onepercent.dating/datesExample

Booked for you

Laura

Coffee Saturday · 11am

Found his person

“Think I’ve found my person! … I’m going to be taking it exclusive.”

George

1% member

Now with Sofia

“… Sofia outclasses the women I’ve dated previously, including my two ex-wives.”

Robert

1% member

Now exclusive

“… I am able to consistently and predictably match […] we recently agreed to be exclusive.”

Amar

1% member

The verdict

Pick doing it yourself if

you enjoy the chats, and they already turn into dates.

Pick 1% if

your chats tend to go quiet before there’s a date.

Key difference 03 · Your evenings

1% is one call. Doing it yourself is a lot. Of… evenings.

Doing it yourself

Every job, yours.

Doing it yourself means doing all of it: the photos, the bio, the swiping, the replies, the plan. Then doing it again when it stalls.

  • Find a photographer
  • Book the shoot
  • Pick the photos
  • Buy a boost
  • Watch dating advice at 1am
  • Rewrite the bio
  • Rewrite it again
  • Swipe
  • Open
  • Reply
  • Re-reply
  • Keep 6 conversations alive
  • Ask for her number
  • Find a night that works
  • Pick the place
  • Reschedule
  • Start over

1%

You tell us who she is.

One concierge call: who she is, and where you’re stuck. Your team takes it from there.

One concierge call · 20 minutes

The verdict

Pick doing it yourself if

the evenings are yours to spend, and you like spending them this way.

Pick 1% if

you’d rather your evenings went to the dates, not the apps.

See if I qualify

With someone from our team ·
By application only

Still deciding?

You’ve spent more than 20 minutes
rewriting your bio.

Spend the next 20 with one of us instead. Tell us who you’re looking for and where you’re stuck. We’ll tell you if we can help you find your person. Concierge with the Partner Guarantee (Relationship or Your Money Back) is $50,000 for 1 year, with monthly payment plans available to discuss on your call. Not ready to commit? Try Concierge at $3,000/mo with no guarantee. Accelerator is $900/mo, with a 50% money-back guarantee available. The Partner Guarantee isn’t available in every state or city, so we’ll see if you qualify.

If we’re not a fit, we’ll say so, and why.

We’ll find your person or your money back, with the Partner Guarantee.

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